Ep. 6. Why Some People Grow and Others Don't: The Power of a Teachable Spirit

Cultivating a Teachable Spirit: Here’s the BIG 5 characteristics of a Teachable Spirit:
1. Humility
2. Curiosity
3. Willingness to Change
4. Life-Long Learning
5. Graciously receive feedback/correction

1. Humility.
Paul writes in Philippians 2:3–4
“Do nothing from selfish ambition or conceit, but in humility consider others more significant than yourselves…”
Humility doesn’t just make you teachable, it makes you open to learning from others. A teachable person doesn’t think, “What can I prove?” but “What can I learn?”

James 4:6
‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.’” Psalm 25:9
“He leads the humble in what is right, and teaches the humble his way.”

Do you want the God of the universe to teach you? If you want to hear God’s voice more clearly and follow His ways more closely, humility is the pathway.

2. Curiosity.
Curiosity is another one of my core values in my personal mission statement. Curiosity is a really beautiful expression of a teachable spirit.

Instead of rushing to agree or disagree, a curious person slows down long enough to ask better questions. Curiosity is what fuels a teachable spirit. Humility says, “I don’t know everything,” and curiosity says, “I want to learn.”

Here are some strong Scriptures that connect curiosity, seeking, and a posture of learning:

Proverbs 25:2 -
“It is the glory of God to conceal things, but the glory of kings is to search things out.” God invites exploration. God is an amazing creator who made this world with so many layers of beauty, science, and technology.
He doesn’t reveal everything at once. He calls us to seek, to dig, to ask questions. A curious spirit honors God by pursuing understanding.

Matthew 7:7
“Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.” Jesus gives permission, an invitation...to ask questions. A teachable spirit isn’t afraid to knock, to wonder, to wrestle, to pursue. A significant quote for me in this season of life has been, “If you never ask, the answer is always no”.

3. Willingness to Change.
A teachable spirit doesn’t stop at learning…it’s not going to stop at information. A true teachable spirit leads to change. Humility opens you up by saying, “I don’t know it all”, Curiosity creates space by saying, “I want to learn and understand more…”

And willingness to change is where you start taking action and experience your life moving forward into transformation.

James 1:22
“But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves.” This is a convicting verse. A teachable spirit doesn’t just collect information, it applies it. If nothing changes, if you are not taking action on what you know…nothing’s really been learned.

Romans 12:2
“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind…” Transformation requires openness to change. God doesn’t just want to inform your mind, He wants to renew it. A teachable spirit says, “God, change how I think so You can change how I live.”

When it comes to FAITH….willingness to change is often captured by the word, Repentance. Repentance is essentially a teachable response to God.

The Greek word for repentance is: Metanoia, and its means to change direction. To change your thinking. To do an about face. To change your behavior.

Acts 26:20
“…that they should repent and turn to God, performing deeds in keeping with their repentance.”

Real repentance isn’t just internal—it shows up in action. A teachable spirit doesn’t just feel convicted; it moves in a new direction. Or something in your voice: Growth isn’t just about what you know, and how you’ve always done things…it’s about what you’re willing to do differently.

4. Life-Long Learning (consistency in learning).

I want this point to always be true of me. It’s another one of my core values that I’ve included in my personal mission statement. Consistency in learning is less about intensity and more about rhythm. Alright, I’m not talking about you spending 3 hours a day reading dissertations. I’m talking about reading 10 pages a day. Or reading one chapter a day. OR switching off the music during your commute and putting on a podcast or audio book.

A teachable spirit isn’t built in one moment of inspiration… A teachable spirit is formed over time in the quiet, consistent, rhythms of learning.

2 Peter 3:18 “But grow in the grace and knowledge of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ…”

That’s a command in the present tense...keep growing.
Proverbs 1:5 “Let the wise hear and increase in learning…”
 even the wise are still learning.

Philippians 3:12 Apostle Paul says, “Not that I have already obtained this or am already perfect, but I press on…” If Paul hasn’t “arrived,” neither have we.

5. Openness to Correction + Receptivity to Feedback.

I know one of my previous points is, “willingness to change,” However, this final point really zooms in on how that change often comes...through correction and feedback from others (and from God). The Bible has a lot to say about this…

Proverbs 9:9
“Give instruction to a wise man, and he will be still wiser; teach a righteous man, and he will increase in learning.”

Proverbs 12:1
“Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge, but he who hates reproof is stupid.” This is one of the clearest verses in all of Scripture.

Reproof is a word we don’t typically use in 2026, but it simply means correction. A teachable spirit doesn’t avoid correction...it actually loves it, because it leads to growth. If you don’t love correction…the Bible calls you, stupid haha.

A teachable spirit is all about your posture toward learning. The wise aren’t defensive when corrected; they grow from it. Again, Humility says, “There’s more for me to learn.” Give me instruction…give me feedback…please correct me if I’m off course.

Proverbs 27:6
“Faithful are the wounds of a friend; profuse are the kisses of an enemy.” Sometimes the people who love you most will tell you the hardest truths.
A teachable spirit learns to trust the wounds of faithful friends. Here’s a question to consider….how do you know if you have a teachable spirit?

“A teachable spirit is revealed most clearly, not in how you receive praise… but in how you receive correction.” Do you get defensive when you hear feedback? …or do you listen, receive, reflect, and grow.